Why you shouldn't be cool in the rave
As rave culture has shifted into the mainstream, and social media has played more of a role in dictating how people look and behave, the dance floor can sometimes be a little too “cool” for its own good.
At the core of what made raves so popular was the freedom to let loose and express yourself without fear of judgement. If you think raving is all about wearing black from top to toe, hiding behind your sunglasses and pouting for the gram, here’s why you might want to stop…
YOU STOP CARING WHAT OTHERS THINK
One of the most limiting things you can do in life is to care what others think of you. Once you shift past the belief that other people’s opinions and judgments matter, you’ll experience a whole new level of freedom.
YOU ATTRACT THE RIGHT PEOPLE
When you put on a facade of cool, you only attract similar people. This superficial mask leads to superficial connections with superficial people. Get real with yourself, let loose and attract more authentic people.
YOU’LL BECOME MORE CONFIDENT
People who try too hard to be “cool” are often hiding behind their mask because they’re not actually confident. By embracing who you are, your foibles and peculiarities, you’ll gain more confidence.
YOU BRING BETTER ENERGY TO THE RAVE
When people try to be cool they put their guard up, they can become uptight and put themselves on a pedestal. Raves benefit from positive and uplifting energy, so drop the act and immerse yourself in the dance floor.
IT’S WAY MORE FUN TO BE “UNCOOL”
When you’re not worrying about how you look, or what other people think about you, life becomes a lot more fun. Expressing yourself freely, dancing wildly, laughing, sweating, and being silly and open hearted, is an altogether more enriching way of being.
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